I chatted with a friend the other day, told him my status. Told me my status, too, because when we communicate our situation to others we might see it more clearly ourselves.

“I live in this poor place, last house in the village, free lodging, no distractions, private chauffeur…”
Hm, not so bad when I think about it. Actually ideal for me right now.
It could be the other way round, which is also good.
“Well… my situation is actually quite awful. When I think about it, I gotta get out of this place! Thank you for asking, now I know how it is.”
This is interligence. We don´t even need someone else to talk to. “I” can interview “Me”, with “Myself” (who always knows how it is) looking on, bemusedly.